We all want to work hard. Or do we just want to seem to work hard?
So many times I find myself not productivelyspending office time. I listlessly look at Reddit. Or I look at my burn rate and try to figure how many sales I need to make. Or I’ll scroll through LinkedIn and make some connections. Or I check my analytics for no discernible reason (because I’m not trying to solve a problem).
This is true #hustle, right?
I’m #grinding while you’re sleeping, right?
Nope. I’m mostly just deluding myself. I’m here, doing little of value. Little to advance my interest. It feels like work, and to an outsider it looks like work, but it’s the 80% of the stuff that doesn’t matter. It’s unfocused, unstructured, and constant.
It has all of the bad qualities of work and none of the healthy, productive qualities. It drains me. It makes me think. It induces decision fatigue. But it makes nothing. It resolves nothing.
There are so many thins like this that I’ve done. Make-work projects that feel like work but don’t add value to my business or to my customers. Redoing my logo is one. Agonizing on the move between Quickbooks and Xero is another. And I shudder at how much money that I’ve lost on this stuff. On not being able to summon the intensity needed to resolve the real problems.
My guilt keeps me in the chair, but a better use of my life would be to do what? To go for a run. To play with my kids. To read a book. To finally order a bookcase. All of these things .
So I know that I’ll get private messages giving me advice. I’m gonna resolve this this way:
Each day I’m gonna start with my core four activities.
- Writing – that is the gateway to my own sanity. The thing that makes me better, and the thing that I take pleasure from. I’ve had varying degrees of practice and skill in my life.
- Reading- Again, having long conversations with mentors, escaping yourself and getting into someone else’s problems is a key/core part of my sanity.
- Fitness- At a mentor’s suggestion I’m going all in on the Get Serious program. I was playing Racquetball, counting it as exercise. Since I was eating pretty well I’ve lost 20# this summer. I want to take it to the next level.
- Prospecting- I have a few funnels to fill and a few products to sell. I am a good closer so I eschew prospecting and can get away with it. But right now, I know how critical an hour a day is.
This is the next component of where I’m going. I’ll have days that I do more of each of these things, but the core four activities will be what I knock out each day.
This will be done first, and the schedule will be:
5a- write or read (alt days)
- 6a – read/write
- 9-10 prospect
- 10-11:30 fitness
- 11:30-x hit my list.
That’s it. That’s the core four.